Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Secret of Happiness

Is this the new dieting mantra?

"The secret of happiness is not in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less"

- Socrates


Oh man! Putting on 15 lbs in one year has me 'reading into' things about weighty issues, but still I can't bring myself to be more active. I love food and I also love to bake. I try portion control, but when it tastes good, I want MORE! This is where I'm trying to develop 'the capacity to enjoy less,' as per Socrates' wisdom. Strangely, when I think about it, I have a subconscious fear that I'll go hungry if I eat less, so I make sure there's enough on my plate to ensure that won't happen ...



 

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Travels and Identity

Haruki Murakami, known for dreamlike atmospheres in his literary work, said “No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself.” 

So I'll still be being myself in Wales, just in case you were wondering ... but maybe I'll also be a bit more naturally and consistently cheerful than here in the below zero wasteland of Maine.  I'm so awfully tired of the cold.

In the meanwhile, I try hard to appreciate the beauty of a rose pink morning in achingly cold conditions.

We're loosely planning our departure for May 1, so we have something a little more concrete to work with, though unlike concrete, it isn't firm...


Monday, February 2, 2026

The Hole in the Floor

We were surprised to see the previous owners had left this lush carpet behind in our living room. It looks rather fuddy-duddy to me (and is a color that I'm not enamored with), but it feels so exquisitely deep and soft that I thought I might be able to find a way to live with it. And then last week, we discovered why it had been left there. We rolled up the carpet and found an underlay, feeling a little squishy, taped to the floor all around the edges. Of course, speculation was rife as to whether that was where the bodies were kept (!), but ...


apparently, the elderly occupant's son had INSISTED that the underfloor pad for the carpet MUST sit flush with the wooden floorboards, otherwise it would be too raised up and dangerous for someone with mobility issues. So ... they cut out the floorboards in the center of the room, inserted the carpet underlay and taped it down onto the floor all along its edges. Very weird, because the carpet itself is still raised above the floorboards. At least any carpet I replace this one with will also cover the hole in the floor, but I've not come across anyone destroying a wooden floor this way before - very, very odd indeed.

There were also some odd, random pieces of tile and perspex/plexiglass segments under the carpet edges, still unexplained.




Sunday, February 1, 2026

Pond and Yard

We had 3 ring-necked pheasants (introduced from Asia in the 11th century) pottering about in our Welsh garden one day, one of which was melanistic, a rare, dark coloration. Dale was able to get a lovely pic of a regular one from our living room.


as well as this one showing the dark variant


We also spotted a heron near our pond, which currently looks like this after a year of neglect. Some big projects await!



Red kites, crows and a tawny owl were also part of the menagerie.

Just a reminder, this is winter in Wales!