I love the changing nature of ice and snow formations - it's about the only thing that makes this frigid weather worth enduring! Look at these beautiful structures:
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
Tuesday, January 30, 2024
Frozen in Time
Monday, January 29, 2024
Branching Out
I was so excited to find this by the lake edge at a neighbor's property - problem was, it was dusk, so the light wasn't particularly good for pics.
I intended going back the following morning to catch these patterns in better light, but we'd had snow overnight, and the ice had a fresh white layer over it, so I was glad I'd captured it when I did, poor light and all!
Sunday, January 28, 2024
It Is What It Is
What does 'It is what it is" mean to you? It often sounds like a casual dismissal of reality, but after reading Tara Brach's book, "Radical Acceptance: Embracing Your Life with the Heart of a Buddha" (a slog) I began to think differently.
'It is what it is' is simply the lay person's way of saying that they have released themselves from the attachment to a particular adversity, that they can't change things that have already happened, and that there is still life ahead of us that we have control over.
From Bowie Style Facebook page Starman |
For me, a trivial example is that I've had to accept that I won't ever get to see David Bowie live in concert, but I can appreciate all he has given of himself that is still available to me. That is freeing. So is realizing that having 3 invasive plants in our lake is not something I can undo, but I can still enjoy and appreciate the nature in front of me, and work with what I've got - it simply IS.
Another commonly quoted phrase comes from Reinhold Niebuhr's Prayer for Serenity - "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference."
I found it interesting that the concept of radical acceptance aligns with other commonly used phrases in our culture. One doesn't have to practice mindfulness, meditation and the spiritual teaching of Buddhism to find one's way to serenity and inner peace.
The hardest part is humbly accepting that I don't have control over everything!
Saturday, January 27, 2024
Different Circumstances
I noticed two snow blobs melting very differently on our deck
Just a little further along, where melting and accumulation circumstances were ever so slightly different:
Like snow blobs, we all grow and change differently!
Friday, January 26, 2024
Explanation
Thursday, January 25, 2024
Wednesday, January 24, 2024
Tuesday, January 23, 2024
Tombstones And Other Delectables
When re-arranging my roasting potatoes on end like this, I thought that tombstone potatoes might be a fitting name for them!
And then I realized that I had a lot of foodie pics to share ...
Here's a pic of the new way I learned to cut Kiwis to make them look special and even more attractive
Monday, January 22, 2024
Sunday, January 21, 2024
Saturday, January 20, 2024
Snow Carcass
The branches of this fallen tree looks like a dinosaur carcass mired in the snow - I'm thinking maybe a Stegosaurus?
And then I started wondering whether a snow carcass ought to be called a snarcass? I mean, there's a word, smurr, for a drizzly fog, and susurrus to describe being full of whispering sounds, so why not?
Friday, January 19, 2024
Thursday, January 18, 2024
Snow Hooves
When I see the way snow accumulates on one side at the base of trees, I picture the hooves of draft, or shire (British), horses! Spindly, ramrod straight legs on a massive horse, yes, but still ...
Wednesday, January 17, 2024
Sunset Paddler
We opted for a very simple decoration on our traditional Xmas cake this year (what with all the extra goodies I produced, we thought this brandied fruit cake would not only last, but improve with time, so we've only recently got to the stage of frosting it) as an homage to my favorite lake activity.
After another long, dreary rainstorm, the sun came out just long enough for me to get some sunset shots of our HO scale paddler in his canoe on our cake frosting in the foreground.
Tuesday, January 16, 2024
A Dangerous Business
After an unprecedented set of events at the pharmacy last week (what's new? I seem to ooze bad juju when it comes to pharmacies), I was reminded of Bilbo Baggins' warning to Frodo in the Fellowship of the Ring, when he said:
"It’s a dangerous business, Frodo, going out of your door. You step into the Road, and if you don’t keep your feet, there is no knowing where you might be swept off to.”
Oh woe - my stepping out the door didn't lead to an adventure, which is what Bilbo was hinting at. Mine was a misadventure, i.e. definitely not enjoyable. I had stopped in at the store pharmacy to pick up our meds, having received reminder phone calls that they were waiting for pick up. I was "greeted" by this sign warning customers of longer than normal wait times.
The gentleman sitting in a chair near my place in line started telling us that he'd been waiting 20 minutes for them to open, after having called ahead and being told they were ready for business. I tried to be cheerful and non-judgemental, feeling for the poor technicians behind the counter, and said, "Well, we can be glad they at least provide chairs for us as we wait,' and he laughed sarcastically and said, "Well, they're going to have to provide bleachers for all their customers at the rate they're going!" I laughed with him, but I wasn't in a rush and thought I could easily exercise patience.
But that wasn't the problem - the problem was that with the new software, ALL 'waiting for pick-up' meds had been returned to the shelves and my request had to begin again afresh. I was asked my birthdate at least 3 times, and was then told that my prescription was out of date and couldn't be filled. I stood up on my hind legs and emphatically explained that that was impossible, since my doctor sent it through on January 4 of this year, 2024, and I'd received a call that it was ready for pick up just 3 days ago. I was repeatedly told that all scripts had been returned to the shelves, as if that explained why mine was unable to be filled (expired script). Then I got asked if it was for 137 mg. I don't know the relevance of this, and certainly didn't know what the strength was off the top of my head - it was just a regular bottle of nasal antihistamine. It was explained that there were 2 requests in my records (same strength!) but that one had expired, which had caused the confusion (what?) ... It just went on and on ... After mine was sorted out, I had to switch gears to my husband's prescriptions, with the same level of repetition and incompetence. At the end of it all, I was reminded that it would take about 30 minutes to process and fill.
I had shopping to do anyway, so I decided to simply check in again afterwards. An hour later, I returned to the pharmacy ... and my script (a nasal spray that doesn't require counting out pills and dosages) was not ready, despite me having taken DOUBLE the amount of time suggested! I was exasperated, but remained calm knowing I would hate to be at the receiving end of an entire community's anger, and sat down to wait another 10 minutes.
I didn't lash out or release my inner Kraken this time around, but had a lot to share when I got home ... Bilbo was right, you just never know what dangerous business you might encounter when you step out the door! Tolkien also appropriately wrote “It simply isn't an adventure worth telling if there aren't any dragons,” because in this case, it was the dragons that made me tell of this misadventure!
(I think my doctor should write a script for me not to go near a pharmacy in future; that might help my blood pressure.)
Monday, January 15, 2024
Clarity
Sunday, January 14, 2024
Mini Galaxy
I managed to capture this photo of a mini galaxy recently ... or the eye of a hurricane (hmmm, same thing in a way?)
Whoever thought baking wasn't science?
Saturday, January 13, 2024
Old Curtains
Our bedroom curtains are 40 years old! They seem to shed a little fluff these days, but they still hang together well, so we are not looking to replace them. Yes, we've had to make a few alterations to them over the years, when different hardware or roof height called for it, or when seams needed strengthening. But they're still very repairable, being neither threadbare nor on their last legs.
The same goes for us - after 40 years together, we're a little drab and frayed around the edges, have had to make a few adjustments over the years, but we're still hanging together. And we still come together at the end of every day like a pair of old curtains.
Friday, January 12, 2024
Ho Hum
Yet more snow stuff - sorry! I let Google Photos take it up a notch by 'stylizing' my photo of the watery patterns on the lake surface.
The sky's reflection is magnificent!
Thursday, January 11, 2024
Ice Stars
What an amazing find this was on a recent walk - starry ice!