Wednesday, February 11, 2026

Ice Globes




I tried my hand at making some ice globes again this year seeing as the weather is so frigid. In one night I got these three results, with very little effort.



This one ended up more as a fruit bowl shape than a globe, because it's overnight placement meant its lower half was partly covered by snow, stopping the water from freezing (it's been inverted in this pic)






The structures of formation inside were quite intriguing





Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Holding On

What makes these particular pieces of snow and ice hang on the way they have? Everything around them is doing something else - I guess they're marching to the tune of a different drummer!








Monday, February 9, 2026

What's Going On?

 Busy! The house is being picked over, and sorted ...


Packing cases are being filled ...

No time for contemplations of the status of ice and weather and mood and ..., and ... while the house is a shambles - mental chaos reigns!





Friday, February 6, 2026

Moonlit Jail

Shadows by moonlight

Prison bars across the snow:

Home becomes my jail.



Wednesday, February 4, 2026

Secret of Happiness

Is this the new dieting mantra?

"The secret of happiness is not in seeking more, but in developing the capacity to enjoy less"

- Socrates


Oh man! Putting on 15 lbs in one year has me 'reading into' things about weighty issues, but still I can't bring myself to be more active. I love food and I also love to bake. I try portion control, but when it tastes good, I want MORE! This is where I'm trying to develop 'the capacity to enjoy less,' as per Socrates' wisdom. Strangely, when I think about it, I have a subconscious fear that I'll go hungry if I eat less, so I make sure there's enough on my plate to ensure that won't happen ...



 

Tuesday, February 3, 2026

Travels and Identity

Haruki Murakami, known for dreamlike atmospheres in his literary work, said “No matter how far you travel, you can never get away from yourself.” 

So I'll still be being myself in Wales, just in case you were wondering ... but maybe I'll also be a bit more naturally and consistently cheerful than here in the below zero wasteland of Maine.  I'm so awfully tired of the cold.

In the meanwhile, I try hard to appreciate the beauty of a rose pink morning in achingly cold conditions.

We're loosely planning our departure for May 1, so we have something a little more concrete to work with, though unlike concrete, it isn't firm...


Monday, February 2, 2026

The Hole in the Floor

We were surprised to see the previous owners had left this lush carpet behind in our living room. It looks rather fuddy-duddy to me (and is a color that I'm not enamored with), but it feels so exquisitely deep and soft that I thought I might be able to find a way to live with it. And then last week, we discovered why it had been left there. We rolled up the carpet and found an underlay, feeling a little squishy, taped to the floor all around the edges. Of course, speculation was rife as to whether that was where the bodies were kept (!), but ...


apparently, the elderly occupant's son had INSISTED that the underfloor pad for the carpet MUST sit flush with the wooden floorboards, otherwise it would be too raised up and dangerous for someone with mobility issues. So ... they cut out the floorboards in the center of the room, inserted the carpet underlay and taped it down onto the floor all along its edges. Very weird, because the carpet itself is still raised above the floorboards. At least any carpet I replace this one with will also cover the hole in the floor, but I've not come across anyone destroying a wooden floor this way before - very, very odd indeed.

There were also some odd, random pieces of tile and perspex/plexiglass segments under the carpet edges, still unexplained.




Sunday, February 1, 2026

Pond and Yard

We had 3 ring-necked pheasants (introduced from Asia in the 11th century) pottering about in our Welsh garden one day, one of which was melanistic, a rare, dark coloration. Dale was able to get a lovely pic of a regular one from our living room.


as well as this one showing the dark variant


We also spotted a heron near our pond, which currently looks like this after a year of neglect. Some big projects await!



Red kites, crows and a tawny owl were also part of the menagerie.

Just a reminder, this is winter in Wales!






Saturday, January 31, 2026

Snippets

Phew, we had a long day of travel and transfers to make the journey home - one of us (moi, of course) slept quite a bit. Dale was across the aisle from a mucus-gurgling, sleeping child whose parents kept holding the barf bag to her face when she choked on mucus - a little disturbing, and not sleep inducing.

We had a couple of hours delay at both Birmingham and Paris airports on our return trip. Charles de Gaulle was shrouded in thick cottony mist - it was weird to imagine being so invisible in Paris. This photo was taken on our inbound journey; none of this was visible on the return flight. 

Arriving back in Boston and waiting for the C & J bus was like arriving unequipped in the Arctic. Last night the temperature was recorded at -18°F (-27°C). It's brutal and fierce out there! We also had to clear snow off the car once our bus journey was over, but it really wasn't too difficult, just awfully, deeply cold. Thankfully, the depot has a collection of snow shovels for patrons to borrow. We had snow brushes and scrapers in the car, but a shovel was needed for this amount of accumulation.

What a welcome surprise awaited us as we arrived at our house - a cleared entryway! How incredibly lucky we are to have such kind friends who thoughtfully shoveled a space to park our car as well as a walking route to our front door through the 2 feet of snow. Just ... amazing! This made our long-awaited arrival back home after dark so much more manageable. Thank you, friends.

And, talking of amazing, Dale's cousins skillfully finagled a way to send a bottle of French brandy to our Welsh bungalow, that was hand delivered from our local Spar shop. What a delightful surprise that was - we felt so loved.

My brother and his partner were, as always, super welcoming, helpful and accommodating, offering all sorts of ways to help us transition smoothly, and providing anything we needed or mentioned. Besides a blow-up air mattress and some folding chairs, we set off for our new home with a home-baked lemon drizzle cake!

We didn't hear any Welsh spoken in any of our interactions - it was all straightforward English, except for 'haitch' being used instead of 'aitch' when spelling a word.

On one of our excursions to collect some comfy chairs for our living room, we struggled to find the exact house ... so we endured a drive along a convoluted, rutted, potholed, muddy farm track into the Welsh hills with a steep drop off on one side only to realize we were in the wrong place. We eventually managed to turn around and drove back down to the civilized part of town where we could get phone reception. Turns out the D-I-L had used the cottage name that she could spell in the text to us, but which wasn't to be found on Google maps! The other unspellable, named house on the property was traceable, though. The elderly farmer's wife stayed on the line with us and directed us to her gate and showed us around. It was an old rambling, run-down building that had moisture and damp creeping all over the walls, with musty carpets and curtains. The family was committed to emptying out the place so they didn't have to continue paying Council tax on an unused building.

We struggled to get both armchairs into the rental car, and didn't want to have to do a second trip in the dark, so we started questioning how we would tie the trunk down when the old lady remarked that she had some string because of course, this was a farm. Before she returned with her farm string, I remembered that we'd been traveling with "stretchies" in the car for just such an occasion, and we were able to secure the load very easily.

In all the uncertainty and stressful driving conditions, we didn't take any photos! Thankfully the chairs were not fabric-upholstered, and I was able to clean them thoroughly and immediately we got home - we had been 'gifted' numerous cleaning agents in our home, one of which was appropriately called "Bang! Black Mold Remover." Hey presto, we were in business ... but still didn't remember to take direct pictures of them, so here is an incidental peek at our newly acquired/earned armchairs.


Hope's Clipped Wings

Is a nation or a person that is taught to embrace hope being fooled into a form of acceptance? Maybe having hope is what maintains the status quo? Is it a convenient way to suppress action and protest?

I keep hearing Marx's quote 'religion is the opiate of the masses' swirling in my head as I contemplate this ... poets, politicians and essayists appear to encourage us to hope ...


“Hope” is the thing with feathers -
That perches in the soul -
And sings the tune without the words -
And never stops - at all -
-Emily Dickinson

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” 
- MLK

'Even the darkest night will end, and the sun will rise.” 
-Victor Hugo



In these times, I fear that hope is a way to manage our anger and fears, to keep our discontent suppressed.


Thursday, January 29, 2026

Wales Wrap Up

Our new fridge arrived, much later in the day than scheduled so it limited some of our other plans, but it will at least be available to us when we return. We had no trouble with food spoiling without the fridge at this time of year. Look at how tall it is - perfect for Dale (now he can make himself useful in the kitchen 😀)

 

Our last day in Isfryn was ... sunny and dry (i.e. no rain). It made for a beautiful morning, but this was also the day we had to leave! What a tease.



So it was back to narrow, windy roads with signs like "Adverse Camber" and "Hidden Dip" as we made our way to Stoke-on-Trent to test-drive an Ioniq EV before heading to our hotel at the airport for a very early start of a long, long day ahead.



We returned our rental car and made the best of the few hours sleep available to us before the 3:30AM wake up alarm.

 


Wednesday, January 28, 2026

Encounters




We've had so many wonderful interactions with people during our first week here i n Isfryn. We're constantly reminded about how small a world this is, and how connected we all really are - so many coincidences and commonalities!





On arriving in England, we were astounded to encounter someone we know at the supermarket we stopped at! How is that possible? It was the lovely old guy who once lived next door to my brother in Ludlow, and who had accompanied us to the pub in June last year! Amazing, indeed.



When the "zhuzh" guys came over to drop off the not-free couch at our house one evening, we got talking, and discovered that one of them had studied in East London, South Africa. Not only that, but he had worked with a dear friend and mentor of Dale's. They both personally knew Carl Vernon. That just blew out minds. What??? How could that be - a dog-groomer in Wales personally knew the very same naturalist as Dale. Wow, wow, wow! These incredible connections gave us goosebumps.

We answered an ad to buy a computer desk, and found the people were not only neighbors just at the end of our street (she and her husband actually carried part of the desk up to our house in the rain instead of putting it in their truck, and then stopped in to have tea with us), but they were currently clearing out her deceased Mom's apartment, and offered to give us first "dibs" on items we needed! Gosh! We came home with a kettle, toaster, immersion blender, hairdryer, plates, can opener, corkscrew, bowls, casseroles, glasses, baking dishes, computer chair, spices and bedside tables for a very, very reasonable price. We'll be picking up a lot more from her when she's sorted through things better - we were literally free-range raiding her cabinets. She said we'd be helping her as much as she was helping us, so win, win!


One of our new neighbors worked as an immigration lawyer and judge, so he kindly printed out some documents that might help us in getting settled with visas and the immigration process. He said his enquiring mind couldn't let go of some of the nuances we'd told him about. Over a cup of coffee, he also told us that he was pleased to find out we weren't just another fuddy-duddy British couple who read The Daily Mail! He asked if he may park one of his vintage cars in our garage until we return, which of course we were happy to agree to.





Our neighbors in the property  above ours welcomed us inside and offered refreshments, but we were short on time. They suggested we ask the mail delivery person to just drop all our mail at their house until we return in a few months! They were sure it would be an okay thing to ask, and that it would be accommodated, but we didn't get a chance to broach it with the mail carrier before we left. So they will fetch mail from our vestibule (the mail arrives through a slot in the front door) and keep an eye on our place to we get back.

The electrical contractor who came to give us an assessment for installing solar panels and heat pumps, was a delight too. He had tea with us, and called the style of tea we were drinking 'builder's tea - a mug with a teabag still steeped in it! He also offered to stop by regularly and check up on our house until our return.

Dale and I got to the point where we'd switch off who was drinking tea with the neighbor each time someone new stopped in, as we were getting tea-ed out! And each 'cuppa' would take and hour or more, which cut into our tasks, but was also, oh so lovely and welcoming. 

One person we spoke to described the fall her mother had by saying, 'the stupid woman fell and broke her shoulder'! We were quite surprised by her description, to tell you quite honestly.


One person we met was called Ceri - we were told it's pronounced Kerry. 

Tuesday, January 27, 2026

Wales, Continued

Since landing in Llanfyllin (make the sound of dentures dropping down from your top jaw and clacking when you say the double ll), we've bought a couple of second hand items advertised for free or cheap, and it has opened up doors, conversations and sharing a cuppa with many new people. What a great way to get to know the locals.

Here's Dale squeezed into our car with a king size bed and frame compressed in with us ...


It was a mission to get it all in in one trip, and then of course, quite difficult to get it out again. We used the straps from our hand luggage, clasped together, to hold the mattress in a compact enough bundle to handle. This is the way to have fun, and feel young: working through challenges.


En route to picking up the bed, we were impressed with a rainbow, and beautiful light on the hills, so stopped for a few shots



The bed has turned out to be a great buy


We bought a desk from a couple who offered to deliver it to our door, and they ended up carrying it inside. Then they said they also had a couch if we wanted it, since in his words, the house needed a little more "zhuzh." Okay we said, since we have no real lounge chairs. They offered to go back and fetch it (his partner had bought it for his dog, but the dog never took to it, so it was time to let it go) - it turned out to be a sick, almost mustard yellow (okay, we could live with it until we have something better and then toss it) - and then before leaving, they mentioned that they had it for sale at £100. Oh no, we'd thought it was a freebie, but we were in too deep to back out at this point, so offered them £70 (also too much, but oh well!). We thought we'd 'hide' it as a mudroom bench for helping us remove shoes comfortably, but its place was usurped a few days later by the purchase of a second hand freezer, so for now, it's useful in the conservatory.


It's all part of the adventure!




Monday, January 26, 2026

Green, Green Grass of ... Wales

There's still so much I haven't mentioned thus far - on our first day here we had to do an expansive grocery shop, ranging from toilet paper to sugar, veggies and pillows, all while bearing in mind we had no fridge. I was so happy to find my greatly-missed Bovril - that yellow stuff on my bread is a buttery spread we bought under the illusion that it was butter - we'd read through (and rejected) all spread ingredients in plastic tubs, and settled on this one, wrapped as a block in foil, just like the salted butter next to it. By this time we were weary and worn out from reading labels, and made a mistake.


The sellers very sweetly brought their parent's dining table and chairs out of storage and left it here for us - it has made life much more comfortable. Of course, they also left table linens mats, and the dressers to store them in.


We picked up a 'tub' chair with a washable cover that was advertised as free a few roads away from us. It's a lot more comfy than a dining chair.


I'm happy to finally have a double sink, with a built-in drainer, as we are used to. The plug for the sink is attached by a chain - perfection.


Dale had ordered a Starlink Internet kit before we arrived, so he set it up for us on the first day here - lucky us!