Friday, February 28, 2025
Could It Be?
Thursday, February 27, 2025
Saga after Saga
On the day we relinquished the cats, the drive to Logan was snowy-icy (go figure, it's February), but manageable. After the drop off, we traveled west along Route 2 to Orange to do more kitchen renovations. We started getting pretty miffed that there were plows in front of us, with no space to pass, holding up a procession of cars behind us for miles and miles and miles. It seemed to be a pathetically, excessively slow pace, ranging from 15 to 20 mph, and the slush they were scraping away was minimal, not significant in terms of volume. It was a long, slow crawl, but we were 2nd in line behind the plows, so could at least see what the holdup was.
Finally the plows exited, and we were overjoyed, but at the first corner after that, the car in front of us, doing about 40mph, fishtailed slightly, lost control and spun in a 360°, smashing into the guardrail and bouncing out towards our lane, now at 90° to the traffic! We had also noticed the iciness without the plows clearing the slush, and knew we couldn’t brake in these conditions - all we could do was continue going at a slow, measured pace, and HOPE that the car wouldn't careen into us (we have a NEW car, for goodness sake!). It came to a stop with enough space for us to continue past without impact! It was terrifying – the driver was alert and conscious, not having rolled, but we had such a procession of cars on our bumper that we couldn’t stop. I can only imagine what a concertina effect that would have had on the raring-to-go traffic. Not an experience I’d want to repeat, ever. (no pictures)
Phew! It was so very scary - we needed a stiff drink of brandy when we reached Orange, where the roads were minimally plowed in the low traffic areas. There was also a lot of snow clear up to be done in the time we were there.We arrived back home around 10pm, 2 days after the snow, and obviously couldn't park in our own driveway, so we took the liberty of parking at our neighbor's cleared area for the night. The next day, our gas snow plow wouldn't start, no matter what Dale tried - it's at least 13 years old, so I suppose that's good? We shoveled a 'route' through the solid, compacted road/driveway interface, and parked in our carport. It was then time to unpack the car and order a new snow blower (in action in pic below).
And then, after all the unpacking, I couldn't find my Invisalign retainer (specially fitted for my bite) that I'd taken on the trip with me - I remembered lying in bed in the Woburn hotel struggling to sleep, and realizing that I wasn't wearing my retainer, but thought, "oh well, it's okay to miss one day." The next night, in Orange, I realized I wasn't wearing it again, so searched through my bags and belongings without finding it anywhere. I thought that maybe I'd left it on my bed back home and forgotten to pack it after all, so waited till I got home to finish the search - but no luck. The hotel searched through their Lost and Found for me to no avail so now we have a new snow blower and new retainers are being ordered.
But we are safe and intact, and so is our new car! No more sagas, please ...
Wednesday, February 26, 2025
Colorful Leftovers
It is said that we eat with our eyes - how fortunate that this assortment of leftovers created such a colorful palette. I guess this lucky coincidence helped these leftovers taste good.
Tuesday, February 25, 2025
Monday, February 24, 2025
Eggsorbitant Eggs
It's a rare occasion that I feel good (eggscited) about paying $4.99 for 18 eggs, but currently that's regarded as a good deal. When you're used to paying $2 or so for a dozen, this seems exorbitant.
I end up spending a lot more time at the egg counter, eggzamining all the prices before choosing. And everywhere I go, it's always a reason for communication with other shoppers, all equally aghast and outraged. Last week the Hannaford check out person congratulated me on my egg-price achievement at $4/dozen. What has this economy come to when I get eggscited about such prices?
Lately, all the best egg prices have been from more up-market sources: free range, cage-free, pasture raised, vegetarian fed, etc so I've strayed into buying these much nicer eggs (round yolks that stand up high, and compact whites that aren't too runny - I'm not eggsaggerating), which are usually way out of my price range.
Sunday, February 23, 2025
Vacancies at the Cat Hotel
My sad and lonely spare bathroom:
- only traces of cat prints and fluff left behind, but nothing that purrs! How hard it is walking inside and not having kitties to greet you warmly. We miss having a strict supervisor watch us through the window when we clear snow. I find myself wanting to turn and talk to them throughout the day, or I keep noticing small things out of the corner of my eye, looking as if it might be a cat.
Okay, so we can also turn over in bed more easily without disturbing a peacefully sleeping cat, and the litter box no longer needs cleaning. We no longer have to avoid strings and balls lying around on the floor. We can access our basement easily without having to shut the door religiously. But unusual sounds in the night still make us think, "what are the cats up to now?" We miss their presence SO MUCH. They seemed to flesh out our lives into something bigger - that extra bonding and affirmation of life around us was so uplifting. A cat-emptiness has enveloped our home.
Saturday, February 22, 2025
Sky Daggers
Not a blown up rocket, nor a jet trail, just an accreting icicle from the carport roof, growing longer with each accumulation of water freezing along it, giving it that bumpy appearance.
Friday, February 21, 2025
Thursday, February 20, 2025
An Exacting Sensitivity
Emily Dickinson's deeply sensitive poetry always wrenches my gut. How exacting and perfect is this way of expressing the value of her life - it's not the length of life that counts, but what you do with the time you have:
If I can stop one heart from breaking,
I shall not live in vain;
If I can ease one life the aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.
(If I can stop one heart from breaking - Emily Dickinson)
Wednesday, February 19, 2025
Tuesday, February 18, 2025
Muckraking
Monday, February 17, 2025
Variegated Snow
We had a fresh 10 inches of snow a week ago - thank goodness it was light and airy, making it easy to lift and throw.
Whilst clearing up, I noticed how varied the crystals were this time around, not uniform at all. Some were densely packed, looking like small, solid white balls, and other crystals were spread out with lots of air spaces in and around them.
Sunday, February 16, 2025
Adieu
Saturday, February 15, 2025
Lines and Patterns
Snow melting into chocolate éclair shapes 😃 - well, that's what I thought of when I saw them
I'm fascinated by this array of intersecting lines, shadows and differing spacings; can't explain why.
Friday, February 14, 2025
Snowbound
Thursday, February 13, 2025
Wednesday, February 12, 2025
Tuesday, February 11, 2025
Ice Glyphs
Beauty is in the details
The ice crystals forming on flat surfaces made me think of ancient writing symbols - glyphs - messages from nature.
Monday, February 10, 2025
Sunday, February 9, 2025
Comfort Zone
Black history month invites us to acknowledge the humanity of people who have historically been relegated to "other" in Western societies, but who love, doubt, joke, grouch, suffer, laugh, think, and feel as we all do. It's time we learn to embrace all of humanity.
If you're not into history, watch or read a film that broadens your understanding of what it is to be human. I watched a beautiful and riveting film, called Queen and Slim, which depicts a tragic love story fashioned by events that many of us never have to contemplate. It's intriguing how quickly circumstances change and how easily things can go wrong. I'm not saying it's perfect, but the protagonists' story is very relatable and moving. The acting is superb and the screenplay is awesome.
Step out of your comfort zone, and watch or read something different from your usual experience. It's how we learn ...
Saturday, February 8, 2025
Beauty of Sunset
These scenes are posted to remind me to get outside more and leave the warmth and comfort of my home - you never know how much you're missing out on.
Friday, February 7, 2025
Apricity
Another new word for me - apricity. It describes "the warmth of the sun in winter," an old English word that has fallen into disuse, forgotten about. I think it's worth reviving; diversity in language adds depth, nuanced meaning and richness to its existence.
In their Grammatical Dictionary of Botanical Latin, the Missouri Botanical Garden gives "apricus" to mean 'being exposed to the sun.'
Thursday, February 6, 2025
Wednesday, February 5, 2025
Smooth and Glabrous
What a stunning display of color to encounter on a winter's day - the hairy berries of the smooth sumac (Rhus glabra), a thicket-forming native, are a cheery sight in an otherwise drab color palette.
According to the Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center, this is "The only shrub or tree species native to all 48 contiguous states".